new devience

topic posted Tue, January 6, 2004 - 8:05 AM by  liz
Hi. I'm Liz, 23f living outside Washington, DC.
I don't know if I'm actually devient... But I think I am the smartest person on earth... I am also a Bipolar Scorpio, which is prolly a good explanation for the aforementioned disposition.

People don't get me...
People think I am mean.
I can't help it.

I have a few friends but only b'c they are cool enough as ppl to be able to look past my innate bitchy nature to see the person I really am.

Does anyone else have this social "problem"?
maybe we can be friends.

Thanks...
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liz
offline liz
Maryland
  • Re: new devience

    Tue, January 6, 2004 - 11:02 AM
    Sounds like you are angry. It is easy to be angry and a bitch/mean if you do not know where your mood will be from moment to moment.
    I know the swing thing, the anger thing, but not the mean thing.
    • Re: new devience

      Tue, January 6, 2004 - 11:09 AM
      see thats the funny thing... *I* don't think its "mean" thats just what ppl tell me. hahaha... mostly the men i've dated in the past. i am just entirely too honest i guess.

      i'm not sure i know how to "sugarcoat" things... ppl are often very insulted by being told the truth... i don't know how to be fake... so its very hard for to be social with someone i do not like... although this seems to come much easier to everyone else.
      • Re: new devience

        Tue, January 6, 2004 - 12:17 PM
        Try to remember the next time your truth is not always someone elses truth.
        Oscar Wilde once said, "It is dangerous to be sincere unless you are also stupid"
      • Re: new devience

        Sun, December 17, 2006 - 11:18 AM
        Heh, according to jung, the negitives we see in others are merely those aspects we refuse to admit of ourselves. I see no fault in your manner of existance, as those who can't handle honest opinions are only agitated because it's often something they hide from themselves.

        Besides, honesty and truth are mere perceptions. All is opinion, a projection of the mind. Even what i say now is a personal truth, even if others would argue otherwise. That's fine, as perceptions differ person to person. Right and wrong don't exist save for in the paradox of our own conscious.

        Everything is in contradiction, so live your life as you see fit.
  • Re: new devience

    Fri, February 6, 2004 - 4:57 PM
    It seems that I have the oposite problem - I think that I am mean, but no one else does. Probably the Libra in me, I can never quite manage to not see the other point of view - even when I know I am right (and I am always right, right?).

    So anyhow, inside my head I certainly feel bitchy, but I guess the only people who would call me that are my ex-husband and ex-boyfriend - and that wasn't until after I left them.

    Oh well. I will just have to try harder.
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    Re: new devience

    Wed, December 13, 2006 - 10:40 AM
    i get that a lot. i'll just be saying the truth and trying to be as nice as possible, and i'll get "Babe, that was /really/ harsh" from my boyfriend. or friends. i'm like...i'm sorry?

    i think i may be borderline. or maybe i'm just me, and my human nature is like "must....catergorize....".

    we're all social deviants, in some way. just that some are more open about it.

    --Jana

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